Ya know...today I realized that you can't please everybody. It wasn't something I just learned...but I was reminded today that whatever our family does...is our business. We make our own decisions..and we don't do things to make other people mad or upset. But honestly, if anyone has any opinion about the way we do things in our home and they dont like it...then please keep it to yourself. We are adults and we can make our own decisions about our family. We do what we have to, and we accept advise, but that doesn't mean we have to take it. And if we dont take it, just know that we appreciate the fact that you gave us some. But again, we are adults, and we decide together what is best for our family!